Why the Best Leaders Make Themselves Unnecessary
The most insecure thing a leader can do is make themselves indispensable.
I learned this the hard way during my first management role. I was the person who had to approve everything, who needed to be in every meeting, who felt responsible for every decision. I told myself I was being thorough and responsible.
Really, I was just afraid.
Afraid that without my constant oversight, things would fall apart. Afraid that if I wasn't the one with the answers, I wouldn't be needed. My ego drove me to be the smartest person in the room or at least, try to be.
But here's what ego-driven leadership actually creates: teams that wait for permission instead of taking initiative. People who stop thinking critically because someone else will always swoop in with the "right" answer. Innovation that dies in endless approval loops.
The leaders I admire most do something completely different.
They lead with empowerment, not ego. They understand that their job isn't to be the star. It's to help others shine.
These leaders trust people to make decisions within their expertise, create psychological safety where experimentation isn't punished, and measure success by how well their team performs when they're not there.
I remember watching one leader handle a major client crisis. Instead of taking charge, he asked his team member who knew the account best: "What do you think our next step should be?" Then he backed that person's decision fully, providing support without taking over.
That team member didn't just solve the problem; they grew into someone who could handle future crises independently. The whole team saw what was possible when they were truly trusted.
When you empower others, something beautiful happens. Work stops being something people have to do and becomes something they want to own. Pride replaces compliance. Innovation flourishes because people feel safe to try, fail, and learn.
The best leaders understand an important concept. The more power you give away, the more influence you actually have. Not through control, but through the lasting impact of the people you've helped become their best selves.
What's one time you felt truly empowered by a leader? How did it change the way you approached your work?
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